When Everyone Knows It’s Time—But Nobody Wants to Say So
Families often spend months or even years in the gray zone between independence and incapacity. A parent may still be making decisions while family members quietly monitor finances, manage appointments, and intervene when problems arise. Everyone knows something has changed, but nobody wants to be the person who says so out loud. This article explores why families get stuck in this difficult middle ground, the risks of waiting too long, and how to recognize when reality may have already changed.